Being arrested or charged with a crime can turn an ordinary day into one filled with uncertainty.
What happens next?
Should you answer questions?
Who should you call?
What happens at court?
Will your family, employer, or friends find out?
When someone is frightened, embarrassed, or angry, it’s easy to make decisions based on emotion. But the hours and days following an arrest can be important.
Whether the allegation involves DUI or another criminal offense, understanding a few basic principles can help you approach the situation more carefully.
Most importantly:
An arrest or criminal charge is not the same thing as a conviction.
Here are seven things to keep in mind.
1. Understand Your Right to Remain Silent
You have probably heard the words:
“You have the right to remain silent.”
But people sometimes underestimate what that means in practice.
Someone who believes they are innocent may feel an immediate need to explain everything.
They may think:
“If I just tell them what happened, they’ll understand.”
The problem is that statements made during an investigation can potentially become evidence.
You should not lie to law enforcement or attempt to create a false explanation. But you also don’t have to treat an interrogation as your opportunity to argue your entire case.
You can clearly state that you wish to remain silent and want to speak with an attorney.
2. Don’t Discuss Your Case With Everyone Around You
After an arrest, people naturally want support.
You may want to call friends, coworkers, relatives, or acquaintances and explain exactly what happened.
Be careful.
The more people you discuss the details with, the more people may potentially become involved in the situation later.
This doesn’t mean you need to isolate yourself from your family.
It means you should recognize the difference between asking someone for help and giving numerous people detailed accounts of an active criminal matter.
3. Don’t Post About the Arrest Online
Social media is rarely the place to defend yourself against a criminal accusation.
Avoid posting angry messages about law enforcement, witnesses, alleged victims, prosecutors, or anyone else connected to the case.
Don’t upload videos attempting to explain your side.
Don’t argue in comment sections.
Don’t ask friends to attack or contact another person involved in the case.
Even a post intended as a joke can look very different when viewed outside its original context.
Your criminal case should be handled through the appropriate legal process, not through social media.
4. Keep Every Document You Receive
After an arrest or citation, you may receive paperwork containing important information.
Don’t throw it away.
Create a folder and keep relevant documents together.
These may include:
- Citation or release paperwork
- Court information
- Bail-related documents
- Property receipts
- DMV documents in DUI-related cases
- Protective or restraining orders
- Conditions of release
- Other notices
Pay particular attention to dates, locations, and instructions.
Missing a required court appearance or failing to comply with an order can create additional problems.
5. Follow Court Orders and Release Conditions
If the court imposes conditions on your release, take them seriously.
For example, depending on the allegations and circumstances, an order could potentially restrict contact with another person or impose other conditions.
You may disagree with the order.
You may believe the allegations are false.
You may believe contacting someone would clear everything up.
That doesn’t mean you should disregard a court order.
Speak with your attorney about the proper legal process for addressing conditions you believe should be changed.
6. Write Down What You Remember
As soon as practical, create a private timeline for your attorney describing what happened.
Include details such as:
- Where you were
- Who was present
- What occurred before the incident
- What you remember being said
- Potential witnesses
- Relevant photographs or video
- Potential surveillance cameras
- Messages or communications that may be relevant
- What happened during the arrest
Memories fade.
Small details that seem insignificant today may become important later.
Do not alter, fabricate, or destroy evidence.
Preserve relevant information so your attorney can evaluate it.
7. Get Legal Advice Before Making Major Decisions About the Case
Criminal cases are fact-specific.
What happened in another person’s case does not necessarily tell you what will happen in yours.
Charges, evidence, criminal history, alleged conduct, witnesses, constitutional issues, and other factors can affect how a case proceeds.
A criminal defense attorney can examine the allegations and available evidence, explain the court process, identify legal issues, and discuss potential options.
At Khashan Law Firm, our criminal defense team can help clients better understand what they’re facing and what steps come next.
Two California Deadlines Worth Knowing
If you are held in custody, California Penal Code section 825 generally requires that you be brought before a judge without unnecessary delay, and in any event within 48 hours of the arrest, not counting Sundays and holidays. That first court appearance is usually the arraignment, where the charges are read and a plea is entered.
In DUI-related cases there is a second, separate clock. An arrest can lead to a DMV license suspension that is handled apart from the criminal case, and to get a hearing before that suspension takes effect, the request generally has to be made within 10 days of receiving the notice under Vehicle Code section 13558. Missing it can mean losing the chance to challenge the suspension before it begins.
Arrested or Charged With a Crime? Don’t Let Panic Decide
Being arrested can feel like everyone has already decided you’re guilty.
That is not how the criminal justice process is supposed to work.
An allegation must still proceed through the legal system, and a person accused of a crime has legal rights.
The best response isn’t panic.
It isn’t posting your defense online.
It isn’t calling everyone you know to explain what happened.
It’s understanding the allegations, preserving relevant information, following court requirements, and getting appropriate legal guidance.
Facing a criminal charge can affect your freedom, employment, driver’s license, finances, family, and future. Understanding the process is an important first step.
If you have been arrested or charged with a crime in California, contact Khashan Law Firm to discuss your situation with our criminal defense team.
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